As the 44-year-old diva with the legendary voice struggles to make her comeback, both of her exes have written scandalous things about her.

Her ex-husband Bobby Brown has come out with a tell-all autobiography, "Being Bobby Brown: The Whole Truth and Nothin' But," in which he details his and Houston's drug use and addresses the rumors of her bi-sexuality.

And now her much younger lover, Ray J, 27, has written a song dissing Brown and detailing his sex life with Houston.

In Ray J's "Boyfriend," off his just-released album, "All I Feel," which debuts this week, Ray J croons, "Is that your wife, is that your shorty, well I'm her boyfriend . . . I think the problem is you don't beat it right . . . Making love is cool, just pull her hair sometimes."

The feeling between Brown and Ray J seems to be mutual. While Ray J is more blatant in his diss, Brown tries to be subtler.

In his book, Brown writes:

"For those of you who want to know, I'm aware of the fact that Whitney had been seeing Ray J, a very young R&B artist who is most famous for being the little brother of Brandy, the multi-platinum singing artist and TV star.

"Their relationship doesn't bother me. She's open to see whoever she wants to see, just like I can see who I want to see. I know the age difference between her and the little guy is 20 years, but to each his own. The only concern I had was how our daughter felt about the age difference. As long as she's cool with it, it's fine by me."

At least Whitney hasn't starred in any sex tape. Ray J shot to national attention after he marketed a sex tape of him and ex-girlfriend Kim Kardashian in flagrante.

After that video was released, with Kardashian's blessings (she also rose to fame on the wings of the tape), Ray J signed a deal with Vivid Entertainment to direct porn.

When he started dating Houston, Ray J would take any opportunity to have a picture with the diva – and friends were concerned their love life would end up on the Internet, as well.

Did Bobby find Jesus or something? That's one of the lamest excuses for an insult we've heard in a long time. Only a love of the lord could turn the Bobby Brown of yore into someone who says "you're so much younger than me" and then congratulates himself with a hardy "Ha ha! Burn! I sure showed him who the man is around here!" I mean, when Zahara and Shiloh are exchanging more heated jibes than a celebrated "bad boy" and a sex-tape star, it's time to send them out to pasture.

The uncut version of Kim Kardashian Superstar runs over 100 minutes and features over an hour of never-before-seen footage. A trailer on the site promises added sex scenes and candid footage of Hollywood socialite Kardashian and her then-boyfriend, ex-child actor and hip-hop artist Ray J. The revamped website also includes a scandalous voicemail message from Kim to Ray J recorded just after Kardashian found out about the release of the sex tape."

Excitedly, we viewed the new trailer, rubbing our hands in pee-ticipation, only to get wee-wee blue balls! Where is the piss, people? Do we really need more footage of Ray-J saying, "HELLO?" into a phone? Is it totally necessary to include a voice mail of Kim whining, "You're sick? No, seriously? You're disgusting? And you wont, like? Return my calls? Actually? Don't return them at all? Because you're, like? Sick?" We never thought we'd complain about a preposterously pneumatic girl cavorting in a well-lit sex tape, but that was before rumor and innuendo tainted us with the promise of pee. We live in the age of Belladonna and 2Girls1Cup, friends. Anything less than quad anal while balancing a decorative bowl of loose human stools on one's back and it's like, ho hum. Vanilla.

Kim K struts it up at MrSkin.com.

Besides, Kim got peed on.

After several weeks of Kim coyly doing the "no, there's no tape . . . wait, maybe there is" fox trot, we've learned that the tape does exist, it will be distributed by Vivid on February 28, and most likely Kim gave the OK for its sale. Vivid co-chairman Steven Hirsch says:

"We are comfortable that we have the legal right to distribute this video … I've seen the video and it's really great. It has over 30 minutes of explicit sex that fans of erotica will find very appealing . . . Apparently, the video was shot by Ray J about three years ago when he and Kim were in a relationship. Viewers will definitely get their money's worth."

Will they? What's the going price for urine these days? You can check out a NSFW preview of the flick here, and please note that its official title is Kim Kardashian Superstar . . . Featuring Hip Hop Star Ray J. Man, that's a lot of "star"s in one title. There is such a thing as trying too hard. They should call it Lawyer's Kid with Decent Faux Breasts . . . featuring Moesha's Brother.

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ï Keeley Hazell seems to have lost her dignity along with her garments.

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Thanks to X17online for the pic of Whitney and Ray J!